TRUTH TRUST CONSENT Self-reflect upon my conception of the child within—and my potential to achieve it.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiu2so6iircZQzOp3yF3LUBKk-IK8MZbQjyzZzZ_50cHRSk49quYHYE4M9RkVnvy7p00GIe9hHKRbl8M16dw_lV0F84rzhS8dy9yPxv50Vjc-S6d_cSm57U5byBBHG7jTYrawaHoH3aveg/s1600/dissociation45-pic.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="439" data-original-width="428" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiu2so6iircZQzOp3yF3LUBKk-IK8MZbQjyzZzZ_50cHRSk49quYHYE4M9RkVnvy7p00GIe9hHKRbl8M16dw_lV0F84rzhS8dy9yPxv50Vjc-S6d_cSm57U5byBBHG7jTYrawaHoH3aveg/s320/dissociation45-pic.jpg" width="311" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">Write about a moment in which I knew I was in touch with truth..... Self-reflect upon what I believe truth is. Investigate areas in my life in which I feel I am a healthy person. Make a list of all the things which I love about myself. Write about the things in which I have faith—and why I have faith in them. Write about ways in which I can tell the difference between the truth within me and a lie imposed upon me. Study the ways in which I am more empowered now as an adult than I was as a child in my family. List the unhealthy ways I am still connected to my family of origin—including psychically or mentally. Explore the ways in which I still doubt the best of myself. Self-reflect upon my conception of my Child Within and my potential to achieve connection to it.</span>

TRUTH TRUST CONSENT Self-reflect upon my conception of the child within—and my potential to achieve it.

Write about a moment in which I knew I was in touch with truth..... Self-reflect upon what I believe truth is. Investigate areas in my life in which I feel I am a healthy person. Make a list of all t…

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As we start the journey of attempting to move forward on the path towards studying our condition

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div> <br /> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgGBLDZ6HqYxdnFRYGttEVwXNl5m-VYK32HYSDzOhvgAlD4Sh4s6PP23E_EunJEEQEx93di2yX6oeu6n8jotuovuW84VU83aySCXzInz28Z8YI6-M7YfamFCGsDdY6fquNCVBZlbf-kFAo/s1600/alcohol+add.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="729" data-original-width="564" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgGBLDZ6HqYxdnFRYGttEVwXNl5m-VYK32HYSDzOhvgAlD4Sh4s6PP23E_EunJEEQEx93di2yX6oeu6n8jotuovuW84VU83aySCXzInz28Z8YI6-M7YfamFCGsDdY6fquNCVBZlbf-kFAo/s320/alcohol+add.jpg" width="247" /></a></span></div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">As we start the journey of attempting to move forward on the path towards studying our condition , different parts of us are re-energised at different stages of healing.Recovery has to be started, Some parts can be amazingly healed and insightful right at the beginning, while others can remain buried and out of touch. Our different parts traverse the various stages at their own speeds, seemingly independently – but ultimately connected to our core of perfection our child within by our universal thread of truth.<br /><br />The most primitive stage on stages’s healing journey is the contest. This is the stage of grandiosity, acceptance by the norm, dissociated happiness, and approval by the subconscious parents. The parts of us that are winning the contest stop our journey before it has even begun. Here we deny our deepest traumas so intensely that we fool even ourselves into believing they never happened – and that we are already healed. It is for this reason that dissociation mimics enlightenment. Here we idealise us as parents, which allows us full unconscious liberty to replicate the worst of our past in our present. Here we do not look beneath our surface, and if fate goes our way, we will never have to. We remain happily distant from the misery lurking in our guts.</span>

As we start the journey of attempting to move forward on the path towards studying our condition

As we start the journey of attempting to move forward on the path towards studying our condition , different parts of us are re-energised at different stages of healing.Recovery has to be started, So…

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Everyone is intuitive . 'Intuitive Voice' means restoring communication with our child within

<span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">Everyone is intuitive . 'Intuitive Voice' means restoring communication with our child within, so it’s really the ancient language of humanity.</span><br /> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhiRiH8f8le6SU1HZ9P-UZzX2L1BpSlW8K8c3kSS4cQ14rE3zsUA0hOdsiVldxcjctiZWJ05F7uHHEW77YjsC0xFwF0TgZH8Zn6F34BqxrJXE7cKnoiYGJq0bskvzy6Ht9GOYTh5Cn2x7A/s1600/Intulexia.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhiRiH8f8le6SU1HZ9P-UZzX2L1BpSlW8K8c3kSS4cQ14rE3zsUA0hOdsiVldxcjctiZWJ05F7uHHEW77YjsC0xFwF0TgZH8Zn6F34BqxrJXE7cKnoiYGJq0bskvzy6Ht9GOYTh5Cn2x7A/s320/Intulexia.jpg" width="320" /></a></span></div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">Every person is born with that intuition, but not everyone listens to it. intuitive communication is the prototype of language.  Identifying intuitive communication as the “ancient language,” used by all indigenous cultures, the method for achieving communication between all forms of life on earth and ourselves.<br /> No concept of language would be complete unless it included the idea of the “ancient language.”  intuitive communication is a basic flow of meaning and perception, a primitive form of knowing.  Defining the ability to read the emotional<br />intentions of another as a system of information transfer that predates the development of speech and provides the foundation of language.  Without the continuing unconscious operation of the “ancient language” in the background of our consciousness, the words we speak would make no sense. The limitations of current models of linguistics are that they do not allow for consciousness and awakening into the present moment as active factors in human communication.A baby has to communicate without language.</span><br /> <div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span></div>

Everyone is intuitive . 'Intuitive Voice' means restoring communication with our child within

Everyone is intuitive . 'Intuitive Voice' means restoring communication with our child within, so it’s really the ancient language of humanity. Every person is born with that intuition, but not everyo…

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The definition of abuse is simple

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiu2so6iircZQzOp3yF3LUBKk-IK8MZbQjyzZzZ_50cHRSk49quYHYE4M9RkVnvy7p00GIe9hHKRbl8M16dw_lV0F84rzhS8dy9yPxv50Vjc-S6d_cSm57U5byBBHG7jTYrawaHoH3aveg/s1600/dissociation45-pic.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="439" data-original-width="428" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiu2so6iircZQzOp3yF3LUBKk-IK8MZbQjyzZzZ_50cHRSk49quYHYE4M9RkVnvy7p00GIe9hHKRbl8M16dw_lV0F84rzhS8dy9yPxv50Vjc-S6d_cSm57U5byBBHG7jTYrawaHoH3aveg/s200/dissociation45-pic.jpg" width="194" /></a></div> <span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace;">The definition of abuse at recovery in Ten STAGES is simple: whenever our spirit is disrespected we are abused. Abuse of the spirit can take many forms, from the overt forms of abuse that conventional society is able to accept – such as overt sexual abuse, physical violence and the extremes of neglect – to whole realms of abuse that fall below society’s radar and are considered normal and healthy forms of parenting.</span></span>

The definition of abuse is simple

The definition of abuse at recovery in Ten STAGES is simple: whenever our spirit is disrespected we are abused. Abuse of the spirit can take many forms, from the overt forms of abuse that conventiona…

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When we reach and make the decision to study The Ten Stages we have become very proficient at dissociating.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEimm4yF1o385HoCB1g-8QMTGJwo9J1X4kvswrwoycJxoOjexmC02a9ml4GLJG0tctrYtAMrfIZ9evsYxWsg_c3mi35zUk8g_JNN2uJxkxiJWWZTtslqBIU5cCsacl9IhIFeKbQW6Nx9W2I/s1600/dissociation45-pic.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEimm4yF1o385HoCB1g-8QMTGJwo9J1X4kvswrwoycJxoOjexmC02a9ml4GLJG0tctrYtAMrfIZ9evsYxWsg_c3mi35zUk8g_JNN2uJxkxiJWWZTtslqBIU5cCsacl9IhIFeKbQW6Nx9W2I/s320/dissociation45-pic.jpg" width="311" /></a></div> <span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace;">When we reach and make the decision to study  The Ten Stages we have become very proficient at dissociating.<br /><br />We do not question WHY we would need these coping strategies. It is just accepted as a matter of fact that we have become slightly flawed and weak and would attempt to escape living life whenever possible. We see ourselves as different ‘slightly defective’.<br /><br />Social Media are still </span></span><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace;">favourite ways of feeding our dissociation addiction. As an alcoholic has bottles hidden all over the house, We have Facebook,twitter, Instagram etc. What will happen if there is an empty moment, and we did not have a phone or tablet to whisk our mind away from actually living in the present? What would happen if we actually had to ‘be’ instead of constantly dissociating???</span></span><br /> <div> <div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br />The only way we have learned to deal with our difficulties is to dissociate. The idea of their being any other option is foreign to us. We even trained our children to deal with their difficult emotions by dissociating. When our children are very young and having trouble managing their emotions, We would tell them, “Go into the next room and do not come out until you have changed.” We have learned to become very obedient; we leave the room in a tantrum state, but soon will emerge, smiling, pleasant, and happy. Any vestige of a problem is gone without a trace. <br /><br />Having dissociative parents, you learn dissociation from them – both by being taught it directly, and by example. Parents who dissociate are unable to help a child go through their emotions. They are unable to help the child learn that an emotion is nothing to fear, but something that is very valuable and precious, helpful in living life. We sincerely believe that switching off an emotion is the best way to deal with it. We had never heard of the concept of self-soothing, it was pleasant to do some so-called ‘self-soothing ‘ activities, and I felt mildly better when I did them. But the concepts of staying with an emotion, sitting with it until it changes, and using a self soothing technique instead of switching, are all foreign to us. </span></div> <div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">We are too </span><span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">terrified of emotions to ever do this. We are afraid of fear itself, and will go to immense means not to experience the emotion of fear, or any other </span><span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">emotion, without ever realising that we are doing this. We have control of ourself. We feel we can handle anything.</span></div> <div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /><br />We become careful with organised groups of people, and with individuals who might not be safe. We learn what to look for, how to tell whether or not something was safe, how to tell whether or not we are accessed. Eventually, we realise we are safe, our children are safe and well on their way to healing, we all have our safeguards in place.<br /><br />We have no reason not to live in the present, We are relatively free from harm from external sources, so there was no longer a need to dissociate, so we are DONE with dissociation, right? we lived happily ever after, end of story?<br /><br /><br />Obviously WRONG!<br /><br /><br />Long ago, decades ago, We have made the decision that life was not worth living – it was something to ‘get through’ as smoothly and mindlessly as possible until we could die. The rule had been to imperceptibly stay as non-present as possible, while going about the business of doing what we had to do to ‘survive’, to pass as human. That was a rule we learned deep, deep down.<br /><br /><br />Einstein said: “I must be willing to give up what I am in order to become what I will be.” That can be exceedingly difficult. When we embark on this journey of recovery we have not realised that healing required CHANGE on our part. We wanted the constant pain and anguish to stop, but we didn’t want my actual self to be different. We did not want to have to uproot the very foundations of our beliefs and actions and metaphorically relearn how to walk again. We wanted to be free of the continual anguish we experienced, the continual need to cover up our lapses due to dissociation; the continual sporadic loss of time, the hop scotching nature of our abilities – sometimes being able to do certain things; other times have no concept of, or even any desire to have certain abilities.<br /><br />We wanted relief of all my symptoms, but we did not really want to “heal”.<br /><br />When we are finally ready to start dealing with our addiction, we gradually realise that we then have to deal with what caused our addiction in the first place; what we had been unwilling/unable to face originally, what drove us to drink,drug and into inumerable dysfunctions. Only now our problems were compounded by all the problems that addiction brings.<br /><br /> “The worst would pass in a few days. I’d feel good and I’d think, “I’ve got it down pat.” But then I’d look at my life and feel bad. That’s the real pain when you’re an addict. USING HURTS, BUT REALITY HURTS WORSE.”<br /><br />when we are not dissociating, we look at our life and realise this is so very different than what we have envisioned. We do not have a birth family, We do not have in-laws, We do not have blood relatives, We do not have a life partner. We give up an immense amount of ourself to insure that we would have all these things, and when we stopped dissociating, We realise that not only did we have none of those people in our life, We are also missing major portions of ourself. It has taken us along time to realise two things:<br /><br />1. How can you lose what you never had? I never did have those things, only a pretence.<br /><br />And 2. We now have things that are far more important and valuable than those ever were in reality.<br /><br />But. We are still addicted. We know we would not have survived if we had not had the skill of dissociation. It served us quite well. It saved our lives. Now we don’t want to rely on it; we don’t want to do it automatically we have identified three types of dissociation we struggle with:<br /><br />1. The first way is the simple practice of spacing out or shutting off. we use this for two different purposes:<br /><br />1. Avoidance when we are unwilling or unable to face things<br /><br />2. A learned way to be able to switch. There are many times when we cannot access the parts that have the information and skills we need in a situation. Throughout time we have learned that a way to handle this was just to shut off completely inside, and sooner or later the information we needed would gradually seep to the surface or some other place in my mind where it would become accessible to me.<br /><br />2. A second way we dissociate is to switch to other parts inside.It has taken us time to be able to tell when we am not ourself. we blend through most alter personalities, and it used to be easy to believe we are just being ‘us’. We’ve learned to be alert to various factors. One is what age we feel. Other ways we have found to know when I am not Child Within present are to feel what size the body seems, relative to other people or objects; Sometimes we look at a dog, and it feels as if the dog is shoulder height to me. Ooops. Not Child within present! Other ways are to recognise what the emotional tone is and what the values are, what sort of things are important to us. How do I want to spend my time? A numbing activity such as social media games? Oops. That is not a Child within choice for us. So who is out and why?<br /><br /><br />3. The third way we dissociate is one that may be difficult to grasp if we don’t use it. If we do, We will definitely know what we are talking about. We will tell us that some of us whom we have discussed this with have found this concept highly triggering.<br /><br /> We found ourself talking to our guides about a ‘construct’. They asked us what we mean by that term; at the time we had not a clue.<br /><br />We have since learned that we create a construct when we are functioning through something that is not an alter. We are always looking for a perfect ‘formula’ that we could leave in place, and personally go away. Life was something to be endured, and got</span><span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"> through as gracefully and safely as possible, while the </span><span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">real ‘us’ was tucked away somewhere inaccessible. When we are preparing to be in a situation which we may perceive as threatening, we automatically figure out</span></div> <div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">what qualities would be appropriate and useful for that event; find parts inside that have those qualities; put them together and create an ‘artificial’ persona to deal with the situation.<br /><br /><br />An example: One time a friend and I planned to go away for a weekend, share a motel room, and do numerous activities together. I was terrified. I was unused to being social; I was unused to spending long stretches of time with another person without being able to escape and dissociate. I was afraid she<br />would find me (fill in the blank here) unacceptable, stupid, weird, any number of things. My anxiety levels rose and rose. I found myself figuring out how ‘normal’ people would act in a situation like this, what kind of things would interest them, what kind of things they would talk about, what kind of<br />values they would have. I figured out what the situation demanded so that I could pass as human. I found myself focusing entirely on my friend and what she might want to do. It was far too terrifying to have any ‘me’ present at all. I was still around, somewhere, but definitely not in my body. That would have been far too terrifying. From some remote area, I worked the body, instructing it what to say and do. A construct is not ‘me’ or an alter; it is<br />lacking much depth of character, although there were always certain parameters set for what actions the character could do.<br /><br />Fortunately, by then I was far enough along in healing that I realised what I was doing and started laughing at myself. This was a friend who knew about my background, who was safe, who was very accepting of who I was. I ended up just ‘winging’ it; yes, there were some anxious moments, but I spent a lot of<br />time just being ‘me’ and reacting spontaneously to whatever arose, and had a great time.</span></div> <div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br />We do want to say that we do not believe all dissociation is from addiction. If a person is still around perpetrators, dissociation may still be necessary. But once dissociation is learned as the major means to handle difficult emotions, a person will continue to use it automatically from then on, and it greatly lessens the quality of life.<br /><br />Having decided we wanted to do away with this addiction and the pain it causes us, We find specific strategies helpful, when we are not dissociating our decision to stop dissociating: We would like to share these with you.<br /><br />We would like to start with a quote we found: “No one healing intervention will enable a person to manifest the full scope of his or her wholeness. To maximally heal it is important not to limit ourselves to a single modality but to incorporate several healing practices that encompass body, mind, and<br />spirit.”<br /><br />We who have experienced ten stage recovery strongly believe it takes more than talk therapy to break through when there is severe trauma in the background. It takes physical actions, whatever form they may take. When we are faced with severe trauma, the fight or flight response gets activated. This shuts down the cortex; the part of our brain that can reason, plan and make sense of things. Pieces of the event, snapshot pictures, get recorded, but the meaning does not. They are memories that do not make sense. After the trauma, these unresolved emotions are frozen in the body. Think of what the physiological<br />responses are to any emotion and what it means for these responses to be stopped before completion and remain in the body. There is an ‘act hunger’ remaining – the body wants to move through and resolve these physiological processes. The body remembers even when the mind forgets. The body acts as<br />our unconscious mind. At the ten Stages we implement a full range of both play and safe drama therapies.</span></div> </div>

When we reach and make the decision to study The Ten Stages we have become very proficient at dissociating.

When we reach and make the decision to study  The Ten Stages we have become very proficient at dissociating.We do not question WHY we would need these coping strategies. It is just accepted as a matt…

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Rebelle Recovered is the empowerment model with a holistic approach to overcoming dissociation

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgsVkLEFxsg22hglmnhP6R6kp8lrEhm02A9lVAEoHXFv81WhlEb-9K6rUaW46mjVBATWNIxYwZh85cFsVMhojEXbhSBkUSasMhGsGWpawhYS0NZs550kp_hafWV9xlLh2zL5zMR2i6meV4/s1600/REBrecovered.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="118" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgsVkLEFxsg22hglmnhP6R6kp8lrEhm02A9lVAEoHXFv81WhlEb-9K6rUaW46mjVBATWNIxYwZh85cFsVMhojEXbhSBkUSasMhGsGWpawhYS0NZs550kp_hafWV9xlLh2zL5zMR2i6meV4/s320/REBrecovered.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">Rebelle Recovered is an evolving twelve week taught course of study the ten stages and the child within which is based on an empowerment model giving us Power and Authority back,  a holistic approach to overcoming addiction that views us in our completeness– mind, body and spirit. A fundamental basis is flexibility and an openness which leads to continually ask:What are our dissociations,  What are the self defeating behaviours that we employ that destroy us? How do they work in our life? and Why are they their, How can we identify them, Why did we need to create them and can we help to identify them and as a consequence work better in our life without this added baggage? </span><br /> <div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span></div> <div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div> <br /> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"></span></div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">Rebelle Recovered starts from a position of trust and consent which leads us to our own personal truth this encourages us to be continually open to the new information in the ten stages and The Child Within and not to become trapped into dogmatic teachings or create new dissociations to escape from the relentless questions of our newly found reality. At its core our solution, is based on loving Kindfulness not fear; internal control not external authoritarianism; affirmation not deflation; and trust in the ability for us to find our own healing path when given education, support, hope and choices.<br /><br />Rebelle Recovered helps us to develop ego strength which is seen as having a healthy ability to be introspective and to ask ourselves the questions: Who am I? What do I value, believe and want? Meditation clears the path to understanding Kindfulness first to ourselves then to others<br /><br />In Rebelle Recovered, addiction is seen as a complex web of social factors based on matrix of dissociations, physical, pre-disposition and personal history which has lead us into the trap of dissociations. This empowerment encourages us to develop our own internal belief system based on our creating gradual redundancy of our old outdated coping strategies,twisted perceptions and experiences from childhood. It is fluid and open to change as we evolve. It believes that a major task of healing from addiction is to validate the underlying, positive survival goals for safety, connection, pleasure, love and power that we should have had modelled from our childhood. Exploring our active dissociations to find non-addictive and positive ways to meet those needs. It is crucial to create a healthy physical balance to prevent the return of cravings.<br /><br />Rebelle Recovered addresses issues of cultural diversity and internalised oppression stemming from sexism, racism, classism, and homophobia. In our taught model, the concept of “codependency” is understood as a form of internalised oppression, rather than an addiction to security, in a cultural context as well as an individual problem.  improving self-esteem; helping us believe in our own intuitive voice; giving us permission to be creative; expressing and validating our personal beliefs and feelings; and helping to be more courageous are seen as being the positive effects of the Rebelle Recovered Course.<br /><br />Rebelle Recovered encourages us to use this or any other model as a springboard to find our own intuitive voice. And while it is crucial to acknowledge the power of addiction, this model helps us affirm the power we do have to take charge of our lives and overcome our dissociations which control our numerous addictions. Developing one’s passion, finding purpose, bonding with others and becoming involved in social change are seen as antidotes to dissociation which lie as a root cause of addiction. This approach does not posture itself as the one way or the right way, nor does it make assumptions about the length of time it takes or the path that must be followed.We who have experienced the power of Rebelle Recovered need no convincing finally at last we are at peace and fully understand our journey and can at last discard fear, shame and guilt. Rebelle Recovered leads to self-autonomy</span></div>

Rebelle Recovered is the empowerment model with a holistic approach to overcoming dissociation

Rebelle Recovered is an evolving twelve week taught course of study the ten stages and the child within which is based on an empowerment model giving us Power and Authority back,  a holistic approach…

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REBELLE RECOVERY stage TRUST AND CONSENT

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgK55HjgzRKn_TEji3TXlGwo2SzoGz5OWDB4XVzzC7mKgbC_atCdXEzSGaeu6Je2FSyhWyGx1_t65DciFlH16Kt07NRXrYkqF5aZ0KCiLI1Xxdvre53E9bhYEUz-O-obF25c6wxmHg2lD8/s1600/dissociation45-pic.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgK55HjgzRKn_TEji3TXlGwo2SzoGz5OWDB4XVzzC7mKgbC_atCdXEzSGaeu6Je2FSyhWyGx1_t65DciFlH16Kt07NRXrYkqF5aZ0KCiLI1Xxdvre53E9bhYEUz-O-obF25c6wxmHg2lD8/s320/dissociation45-pic.jpg" width="311" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">REBELLE RECOVERY stage TRUST AND CONSENT on our healing program  our contest stage. This is a pre-program stage of grandiosity, acceptance by the norm, dissociated happiness, and approval being sort of the guides. Or the stroking of our egos, If during this contest stage parts of the participants believe that they are winning the contest they will stop participating on the journey of recovery before it has even begun. Here they will deny their deepest traumas so intensely that they will fool even themselves into believing they never happened – and that they are already healed and dont need the program. It is for this reason that they have to learn about their dissociative behaviour that mimics recovery. It is here that we idealise the parents, which allows them full unconscious liberty to replicate the worst of their past in our present. Here we do not look beneath our surface, and if fate goes our way, we will never have to. We remain happily distant from the misery lurking inside us.</span>

REBELLE RECOVERY stage TRUST AND CONSENT

REBELLE RECOVERY stage TRUST AND CONSENT on our healing program  our contest stage. This is a pre-program stage of grandiosity, acceptance by the norm, dissociated happiness, and approval being sort …

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Rebelle Recovered is designed to bring practices of mindful awareness to us who have suffered from addictive trappings and tendencies of our mind.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjVqnJUHi-p4VI4mOhKcwNWkHbi9wBbJcXys3UplY9HuLYbXOrIXRAtv9CJiYPjYCCRcQ_ew0DlAvgqNIipg3wRdQX14Y22GzzxVGR3rLsGvzQIJ5BKQoagNp7WveXy4mjdoxWVQF6ph3A/s1600/REBrecovered.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="118" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjVqnJUHi-p4VI4mOhKcwNWkHbi9wBbJcXys3UplY9HuLYbXOrIXRAtv9CJiYPjYCCRcQ_ew0DlAvgqNIipg3wRdQX14Y22GzzxVGR3rLsGvzQIJ5BKQoagNp7WveXy4mjdoxWVQF6ph3A/s320/REBrecovered.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">Rebelle Recovered is designed to bring practices of Kindful awareness to us who have suffered from the addictive trappings and tendencies of our mind. Child Within practices are intended to foster increased awareness of the roots of the addictive process, destructive habitual patterns, and “automatic” reactions that seem to control many of our lives from childhood. </span><br /> <div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span></div> <div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">The mindfulness practices in Rebelle Recovered are designed to help us pause, observe present experience, and bring gentle awareness to the range of choices before each of us in every moment. We learn to respond in ways that serves us, rather than react in ways that are detrimental to our health and happiness. Ultimately, we are working towards freedom from deeply ingrained and often catastrophic escapist dissociations ingrained in us since childhood .<br /><br /> Rebelle Recovered is useful as an aftercare program integrating mindfulness practices and principles with the deep gentle realisations which lead into relapse prevention. In our experience, Rebelle Recovered is best suited to individuals who have undergone initial treatment and wish to maintain their treatment gains and develop a lifestyle that supports their well-being and recovery.<br /><br /><br />We develop awareness of dissociations which have become personal triggers and habitual reactions, and learn a ten stage solution to create a pause in these seemingly automatic processes.<br /><br /><br />We change our relationship to recognising discomfort, learning to recognise challenging emotional and physical experiences and responding to them in new skilful ways.<br /><br /><br />This includes fostering a nonjudgmental, compassionate approach toward ourselves and our childhood experiences.<br /><br /><br />We build a new rational lifestyle that supports both mindfulness practice and recovery. </span><br /> <div> <span class="text-class-4" style="font-family: "georgia";"><br /></span></div> </div> <div class="zemanta-related" style="clear: both; margin-top: 20px; 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display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://intuitivevoices.blogspot.com/2015/05/another-detailed-examination-of-relapse.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/340340700_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://intuitivevoices.blogspot.com/2015/05/another-detailed-examination-of-relapse.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">Another detailed examination of relapse both physical and emotional, at last in The Ten Stages we come to deal with the roots of our addictions</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; 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What works? Who does it work for? and How can we help it work better?

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhmMZiHQ_SasTRXLyd8msz44OEeDn6b2bs5kai9YtwblnZZo0L8hLZ9pZlI3jAjOCuQ5hYMqf3VF8DgCzNHJF9EXYuvEXFqvjPf1AULBPgwJqyE9AzgB_zFaeKeaPVLQkmuXpBoMMSWtiU/s1600/Rebelle+Recovery.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="158" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhmMZiHQ_SasTRXLyd8msz44OEeDn6b2bs5kai9YtwblnZZo0L8hLZ9pZlI3jAjOCuQ5hYMqf3VF8DgCzNHJF9EXYuvEXFqvjPf1AULBPgwJqyE9AzgB_zFaeKeaPVLQkmuXpBoMMSWtiU/s320/Rebelle+Recovery.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <blockquote class="tr_bq"> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">Rebelle Recovery is a wholistic approach to overcoming addiction that views people in their wholeness– mind, body and spirit. A fundamental basis of this model is flexibility and an openness which leads to continually ask: What works? Who does it work for? and How can we help it work better? It encourages people to be continually open to new information and not to become trapped in dogmatic teachings.</span></blockquote>

What works? Who does it work for? and How can we help it work better?

Rebelle Recovery is a wholistic approach to overcoming addiction that views people in their wholeness– mind, body and spirit. A fundamental basis of this model is flexibility and an openness which le…

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The Four Agreements

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEimm4yF1o385HoCB1g-8QMTGJwo9J1X4kvswrwoycJxoOjexmC02a9ml4GLJG0tctrYtAMrfIZ9evsYxWsg_c3mi35zUk8g_JNN2uJxkxiJWWZTtslqBIU5cCsacl9IhIFeKbQW6Nx9W2I/s1600/dissociation45-pic.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEimm4yF1o385HoCB1g-8QMTGJwo9J1X4kvswrwoycJxoOjexmC02a9ml4GLJG0tctrYtAMrfIZ9evsYxWsg_c3mi35zUk8g_JNN2uJxkxiJWWZTtslqBIU5cCsacl9IhIFeKbQW6Nx9W2I/s320/dissociation45-pic.jpg" width="311" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">The Four Agreements</span><br /> <div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br />Be Impeccable With Your Word: Speak with integrity. Say only what you mean. Avoid using the word to speak against yourself or to gossip about others. Use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love.<br /> <br />Don’t Take Anything Personally: Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won’t be the victim of needless suffering.<br /> <br />Don’t Make Assumptions: Find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness, and drama. With just this one agreement, you can completely transform your life.<br /> <br />Always Do Your Best: Your best is going to change from moment to moment; it will be different when you are healthy as opposed to sick. Under any circumstance, simply do your best, and you will avoid self-judgment, self-abuse, and regret.<br />By Don Miguel Ruiz from his best-selling book The Four Agreements.</span><span style="background-color: white; font-family: "georgia"; font-size: 12pt;"><em></em></span><span style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f; font-family: "arial"; font-size: 12px;"></span><br /> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f; font-family: arial; font-size: 12px;"> <br /></div> </div> <div class="zemanta-related" style="clear: both; margin-top: 20px; overflow: hidden;"> <h4 class="zemanta-related-title"> Related articles</h4> <ul class="zemanta-article-ul zemanta-article-ul-image" style="margin: 0; overflow: hidden; padding: 0;"> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://intuitivevoices.blogspot.com/2015/05/intuition-is-not-result-of-diet-rituals.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/noimg_12_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://intuitivevoices.blogspot.com/2015/05/intuition-is-not-result-of-diet-rituals.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">Intuition is not the result of diet, rituals, or wind chimes. It's the natural consequence of having self-esteem, the greatest power you can have.</a></li> </ul> </div>

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Recovery is experienced as our own personal dialog with our child within

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEitU30MAsRwfNM5We1l6-vRIhwYirQgZw2yZjaOlHK3F4OMOKZbnsrSF6oVIVB6DogBjzjQjDDZxsFdueORvq95hS_jdBPEam8AecQ8sSWh4D-gVEKE2wRQL4KR2XMw6Fk0NSDEsTcrzMQ/s1600/child+within786.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="600" data-original-width="600" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEitU30MAsRwfNM5We1l6-vRIhwYirQgZw2yZjaOlHK3F4OMOKZbnsrSF6oVIVB6DogBjzjQjDDZxsFdueORvq95hS_jdBPEam8AecQ8sSWh4D-gVEKE2wRQL4KR2XMw6Fk0NSDEsTcrzMQ/s320/child+within786.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">Recovery is experienced as our personal dialog with that child within that each of us can accesses multiple times a day. The more that relationship is ignored the more one suffers. Recovery focuses on building that internal relationship, the stronger that internal relationship the more happiness and love are experienced by the individual. Recovery allows one the freedom to follow our own heart and reasoning, it sets us free to be and experience life in a harmonious partnership with the world surrounding us.</span><br /> <div class="zemanta-related" style="clear: both; margin-top: 20px; overflow: hidden;"> <h4 class="zemanta-related-title"> Related articles</h4> <ul class="zemanta-article-ul zemanta-article-ul-image" style="margin: 0; overflow: hidden; padding: 0;"> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://mindofcalm.blogspot.com/2015/12/the-essential-difference-between.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/364062623_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; 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display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">We cannot drop a ball unless we are holding it in our hand.</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://mindofcalm.blogspot.com/2015/12/at-ten-stages-we-recognise-that.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/364062639_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://mindofcalm.blogspot.com/2015/12/at-ten-stages-we-recognise-that.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">At the Ten Stages we recognise that meditation uses words, images, and feelings to evoke a lovingkindness and friendliness toward oneself and others is the healing balm of our practice.</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://stagesevents.blogspot.com/2015/12/half-way-through-course-after.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/364124457_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://stagesevents.blogspot.com/2015/12/half-way-through-course-after.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">Half way through the course after meditations we will start practicing using our newly found intuitive voice</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://stagesevents.blogspot.com/2015/12/the-child-within-has-been-left-alone.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/364124473_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://stagesevents.blogspot.com/2015/12/the-child-within-has-been-left-alone.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">The child within has been left alone for so long.</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://stagesevents.blogspot.com/2015/12/sometimes-child-in-us-needs-all-our.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/364124487_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://stagesevents.blogspot.com/2015/12/sometimes-child-in-us-needs-all-our.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">Sometimes the child in us needs all our attention.</a></li> </ul> </div>

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We are not looking for followers

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhJSbgBlZSI0DoHt8VzcGSxZ3EoXnkd2Wq0PxockoE_6uuQRDPnW1Tn6EPVQaiSD3Cl-bX9cn7E3gNh9m12RFTgXjxNU2Yn6Szozdfr-NGzfnJ8R6wcvjABU2v13BQ5QJr28xera-X2fgM/s1600/FotorCreatedwildtruthstageology.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="180" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhJSbgBlZSI0DoHt8VzcGSxZ3EoXnkd2Wq0PxockoE_6uuQRDPnW1Tn6EPVQaiSD3Cl-bX9cn7E3gNh9m12RFTgXjxNU2Yn6Szozdfr-NGzfnJ8R6wcvjABU2v13BQ5QJr28xera-X2fgM/s320/FotorCreatedwildtruthstageology.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">We are not looking for followers, we are students seeking contact with our child within in a safe judgment free forum. This is not a place for followers … this is a place for leaders. Leaders who realise that our world is lacking growth toward genuine reality and openness. That genuine loving-kindness for ones neighbours has to extend beyond our own family, friends and neighbours. That it must extend to those who are not like us. To those with whom we disagree. As we begin to better understand others we individually experience growth, recovery and receive internal satisfaction, we call reality attainment.</span><br /> <div class="zemanta-related" style="clear: both; margin-top: 20px; overflow: hidden;"> <h4 class="zemanta-related-title"> Related articles</h4> <ul class="zemanta-article-ul zemanta-article-ul-image" style="margin: 0; overflow: hidden; padding: 0;"> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://mindofcalm.blogspot.com/2015/12/we-cannot-drop-ball-unless-we-are.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/364062607_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://mindofcalm.blogspot.com/2015/12/we-cannot-drop-ball-unless-we-are.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">We cannot drop a ball unless we are holding it in our hand.</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://mindofcalm.blogspot.com/2015/12/the-essential-difference-between.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/364062623_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://mindofcalm.blogspot.com/2015/12/the-essential-difference-between.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">The essential difference between animals and humans is the ability to self-reflect.</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://mindofcalm.blogspot.com/2015/12/at-ten-stages-we-recognise-that.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/364062639_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://mindofcalm.blogspot.com/2015/12/at-ten-stages-we-recognise-that.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">At the Ten Stages we recognise that meditation uses words, images, and feelings to evoke a lovingkindness and friendliness toward oneself and others is the healing balm of our practice.</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://stagesevents.blogspot.com/2015/12/half-way-through-course-after.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/364124457_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://stagesevents.blogspot.com/2015/12/half-way-through-course-after.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">Half way through the course after meditations we will start practicing using our newly found intuitive voice</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://stagesevents.blogspot.com/2015/12/the-child-within-has-been-left-alone.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/364124473_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://stagesevents.blogspot.com/2015/12/the-child-within-has-been-left-alone.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">The child within has been left alone for so long.</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; 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We are in the pilot’s seat of our recovery. our stager guides are our co-pilots

<br /> <br /> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEix1lqxe-HA0rmJsreV9356Mdr1kGpMGlGMWA6wXY99Q7gR5FxKHD76RH4yPozWNO6VmUgaebbUAUZaMM-xrjbLcf7ASheaHUKFj2N_BAZEfO-ZnhPdUAWusedFA670FZhd1dYmR5vLePI/s1600/FotorCreatedgrey.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEix1lqxe-HA0rmJsreV9356Mdr1kGpMGlGMWA6wXY99Q7gR5FxKHD76RH4yPozWNO6VmUgaebbUAUZaMM-xrjbLcf7ASheaHUKFj2N_BAZEfO-ZnhPdUAWusedFA670FZhd1dYmR5vLePI/s320/FotorCreatedgrey.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">We are in the pilot’s seat of our recovery. our stager guides are our co-pilots; our children within are our wings.our re-contacted child within is the tower speaking to us. our intuition is our navigation — guiding us.<br /><br />But we are the one who is flying the plane.<br /><br />We chart our course. We determine when to fly, how far and for how long. We decide the destination, the altitude and the engine speed.<br /><br />We are the one in charge. Can you imagine a pilot sitting in the pilot seat asking the crew –<br /><br />“Where to today?” or “What do you think we should do?”<br /><br />This is our life — so take charge of it.<br /><br />But beware, we can burn the fuel too quickly by wasting it with worry, fear, doubt and distraction.<br /><br />There is no one way to get to where we want to go. There are no shoulds. But we do need forward movement, We have to leave the ground to get to our destination.<br /><br />Make a decision, set a goal, determine our desires. Then move forward as our intuition reveals the next step.<br /><br />Take time each day to sit in meditation to receive guidance, then set a flight plan, but be ready to adjust for the wind currents and weather of the emotions. Un-chock the wheels and rev the engines by getting excited, happy, and enthusiastic.<br /><br />Once we have received the insights, and charted the course, we are ready to go. We may have to refuel our body with nutrition, meditation and exercise. We will need to refuel our mind with meditation, affirmations and contemplation.<br /><br />Remember to enjoy the journey – we have the controls – we are in the pilot’s seat. There are fair skies ahead. This is a good time to fly.<br /><br />Don’t worry about our past. Don’t worry about our future. Just be in the now – be aware today and relish all life offers us. Receive, feel, explore and offer joy and love each mile.<br /><br />Know that as we take off, we are supported by unseen forces. Be open to synchronicity and clues along the way.<br /><br />For once we determine what we desire, once we realise we are the one responsible for our life and once we decide to follow our intuition — we can soar!<br /><br />Roger and out.</span><br /> <div class="zemanta-related" style="clear: both; margin-top: 20px; overflow: hidden;"> <h4 class="zemanta-related-title"> Related articles</h4> <ul class="zemanta-article-ul zemanta-article-ul-image" style="margin: 0; overflow: hidden; padding: 0;"> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://stagesevents.blogspot.com/2015/12/what-child-within-intuition-is.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/364124559_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://stagesevents.blogspot.com/2015/12/what-child-within-intuition-is.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">What Child Within Intuition Is</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://stagesevents.blogspot.com/2015/04/the-process-of-growth-through-intuition.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/336853351_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://stagesevents.blogspot.com/2015/04/the-process-of-growth-through-intuition.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">The process of growth through Intuition Yoga is a natural unfolding of our own child within nature.</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://intuitivevoices.blogspot.com/2015/06/intuition-lets-us-see-truth.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/349730500_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://intuitivevoices.blogspot.com/2015/06/intuition-lets-us-see-truth.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">Intuition lets us see the Truth.</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://intuitivevoices.blogspot.com/2015/06/there-is-much-we-can-do-to-encourage.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/349730498_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://intuitivevoices.blogspot.com/2015/06/there-is-much-we-can-do-to-encourage.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">There is much we can do to encourage and nurture our child withins natural intuition.</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://stagesevents.blogspot.com/2015/12/we-are-naturally-designed-to-be.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/364124541_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://stagesevents.blogspot.com/2015/12/we-are-naturally-designed-to-be.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">We are naturally designed to be intuitive.</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://childwithinus.blogspot.com/2015/06/we-are-giving-our-child-within-very.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/349733905_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://childwithinus.blogspot.com/2015/06/we-are-giving-our-child-within-very.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">We are giving our child within a very important gift by nurturing, encouraging, and protecting our intuition.</a></li> </ul> </div>

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We are in the pilot’s seat of our recovery. our stager guides are our co-pilots

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Recovery in Ten Stages It’s not that we aren’t intuitive – it’s that we are scared of our intuition.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhHzF3KYDwRZ-olb_zEgP-FgZJpXhCSq9OZ4OvVmqP3cQFew-sjrXKCYme3t4t_CxtSAyGyY1EZh6kbqQkgXN30U30KQxcyQLTrEu0Wc4BPsCfC6MdKDEKBjQVZfNAa8mgtEaMNmPiZ4DA/s1600/ten+stage+recovery.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="600" data-original-width="600" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhHzF3KYDwRZ-olb_zEgP-FgZJpXhCSq9OZ4OvVmqP3cQFew-sjrXKCYme3t4t_CxtSAyGyY1EZh6kbqQkgXN30U30KQxcyQLTrEu0Wc4BPsCfC6MdKDEKBjQVZfNAa8mgtEaMNmPiZ4DA/s320/ten+stage+recovery.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">In recovering in Ten Stages we always go with the choice that scares us the most, because that's the one that is going to require the most from us.We come to realise that we are pre-programmed for survival not happiness and we need to move ourselves towards our happiness our child within.</span><br /> <br style="font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace; font-size: x-large;" /> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">We should begin and end Recovery with this quote and leave it at that, because that is as simple as it is.</span><br /> <span style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: large;">But, we do want to clarify one thing – and that’s that we want to be smart about this.</span><br /> <span style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: large;">We don’t want to make the choice to go down into dark basement where there is a man with a gun waiting for you – that doesn’t make sense.</span><br /> <span style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: large;">We are not talking about choices that put us in mortal danger. On the contrary, we are talking about those choices in everyday life that scare the crap out of us.</span><br /> <br style="font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace; font-size: x-large;" /> <span style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: large;">THOSE are basements we want to go down. Why? Because the messages we get from our intuition, from our child within buried in our basement, are calling us out into the unknown – and we are naturally scared of the unknown. That's just the way it is.</span><br /> <span style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: large;">So, if we are scared to make a choice: to quit a group, to start new recovery, to leave abusive relationships – and we know we must make this choice or live an unfulfilled recovery life – then THAT is the choice that will lead us to freedom.</span><br /> <span style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: large;">It’s not that we aren’t intuitive – it’s that we are scared of our intuition.</span><br /> <br style="font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace; font-size: x-large;" /> <span style="font-family: "courier new", courier, monospace; font-size: large;">We spend most of our time recovery in ten stages studying with others to get them to make the choice that scares them the most. Getting to that decision point is the work. There are stories on top of stories on top of stories and beliefs that hold folks back from making that choice. But ultimately, nothing else will bring them fulfilment and joy.</span><br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> <div class="zemanta-related" style="clear: both; margin-top: 20px; overflow: hidden;"> </div> <br /> <div style="-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; color: black; font-family: Times; font-size: medium; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; orphans: auto; text-align: start; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; widows: 1; word-spacing: 0px;"> <i>The Ten Stages is a studied recovery course. It is a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back to our one true intuitive voice.We start to learn and come out of our protective dysfunctional shell and reclaim our lives. #childwithin#10stages</i></div> <div class="zemanta-related" style="clear: both; margin-top: 20px; overflow: hidden;"> <h4 class="zemanta-related-title"> Related articles</h4> <ul class="zemanta-article-ul zemanta-article-ul-image" style="margin: 0; overflow: hidden; padding: 0;"> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://tenstage.blogspot.com/2015/11/what-is-holding-us-back-is-obsessive.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/364027941_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://tenstage.blogspot.com/2015/11/what-is-holding-us-back-is-obsessive.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">What is holding us back is the obsessive and debilitating need for certainty of outcome ahead of time.</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://intuitivevoices.blogspot.com/2015/06/there-is-much-we-can-do-to-encourage.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/349730498_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://intuitivevoices.blogspot.com/2015/06/there-is-much-we-can-do-to-encourage.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">There is much we can do to encourage and nurture our child withins natural intuition.</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://intuitivevoices.blogspot.com/2015/06/for-our-child-within-trauma-is-still.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/346226501_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://intuitivevoices.blogspot.com/2015/06/for-our-child-within-trauma-is-still.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">For our child within the trauma is still going on in our head, though not in our reality. Our intuitive voice is high jacked by the traumatic voice of childhood.</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://stagesevents.blogspot.com/2015/12/what-child-within-intuition-is.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/364124559_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://stagesevents.blogspot.com/2015/12/what-child-within-intuition-is.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">What Child Within Intuition Is</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://stageforum.blogspot.com/2015/05/the-child-within-thats-is-interior.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/340768502_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://stageforum.blogspot.com/2015/05/the-child-within-thats-is-interior.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">The CHILD WITHIN thats is an interior voice accessing the exterior and is the only true voice of the child.The authentic intuition voice that lovingly guides your life.</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://childwithinus.blogspot.com/2015/08/theres-no-addiction-without-thought.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/355423486_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://childwithinus.blogspot.com/2015/08/theres-no-addiction-without-thought.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">There's no addiction without 'thought disorder', broken sentences, blocked phrases.</a></li> </ul> </div>

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Recovery in Ten Stages It’s not that we aren’t intuitive – it’s that we are scared of our intuition.

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Women are the fastest-growing segment for substance abuse

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div> <blockquote class="tr_bq" style="line-height: 26px; margin-bottom: 24px;"> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiurLt810vnlZFujYeKek1BNq-t1vCVbK5fp-Gu2IC9AZPV_Sy9hEayx1My4RpgGAOJ6csFJDjMZ4nm9kAeXDHE9MWut_2ZDDwdDxhDJmSCLtC_XslFQ6TQMHudR2VGN4gojaqcMayI62g/s1600/rebellerec345.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="268" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiurLt810vnlZFujYeKek1BNq-t1vCVbK5fp-Gu2IC9AZPV_Sy9hEayx1My4RpgGAOJ6csFJDjMZ4nm9kAeXDHE9MWut_2ZDDwdDxhDJmSCLtC_XslFQ6TQMHudR2VGN4gojaqcMayI62g/s320/rebellerec345.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">Women are the fastest-growing segment for substance abuse . Even more frightening is that the majority who need treatment do not receive it because:</span></blockquote> <br /> <blockquote class="tr_bq" style="line-height: 26px; margin-bottom: 24px;"> <ul style="line-height: 26px; margin: 0px 0px 24px 38px; padding: 0px;"> <li style="margin: 0px 0px 12px;"><span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">They are afraid of losing, or being separated from, their families</span></li> </ul> <ul style="line-height: 26px; margin: 0px 0px 24px 38px; padding: 0px;"> <li style="margin: 0px 0px 12px;"><span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">They view their substance use as a social activity or habit, rather than an addiction that is disrupting their lives </span></li> </ul> <ul style="line-height: 26px; margin: 0px 0px 24px 38px; padding: 0px;"> <li style="margin: 0px 0px 12px;"><span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">They believe that their substance abuse is the outcome of anxiety or depression, treating the mental health issue while ignoring the addiction</span></li> </ul> <ul style="line-height: 26px; margin: 0px 0px 24px 38px; padding: 0px;"> <li style="margin: 0px 0px 12px;"><span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">They are afraid or embarrassed to admit they are struggling with addiction, and hide their drug or alcohol use from family and friends</span></li> </ul> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">There are special issues that women face in addiction treatment and recovery.  Traditional wisdom says that women progress faster in addiction. Now the research is telling us the "why" and more importantly "what" can be done to assist women in recovery.<br />Women start using for different reasons, get addicted differently, progress faster, recovery differently and relapse for different issues. Due to shame and stigma, women may be more likely to drink/take pills when alone and hide it from others. Some women have their home as their bar and may have three martini play dates with their friends and their children.<br />Those with stressful careers may use to keep up the image that they can raise three kids, have a high power job and still keep up! With the stimulant drugs some women start using to lose weight. While many women are high functioning and may be able to keep up the appearance of being fine they are unraveling on the inside.<br />Physiologically women metabolize alcohol and drugs differently then men. Physically one drink for a woman has twice the impact physiologically on a woman that it does on a man. That's not just about getting drunk, that's impact to the organs, to the brain. It's serious stuff!<br />Mixing types of drugs makes it even more damaging. When mixing chemicals one and one is not necessarily two. Women also tend to have more access to prescribers of medications which can make it even more dangerous.<br />Yes, there is physical damage but it may pale in comparison to the emotional  damage done by addiction. When a woman is addicted it can impact the entire family system - since women are generally the central organising factors in their network (caregiver to aging parent, parent to children, caregiver of older partner.).<br />Women are complicated! In addition a female's distinctive physiology, mental health issues, hormonal differences, spiritual concerns and as well as life circumstances may affect their experience in addiction and recovery. Treatment and recovery are most successful when these individualised needs are taken into account.<br />The good news is that recovery is natural for women. Addiction is the unnatural state. The female brain is actually wired for connection! Many women find that the support of Rebelle Recovery a 10 Stage course and other support groups are exactly what they need to live a life free of chemicals. Recovery is the most critical part of an addicts journey and many find that in recovery they have a life beyond their wildest dreams.</span></blockquote>

Women are the fastest-growing segment for substance abuse

Women are the fastest-growing segment for substance abuse . Even more frightening is that the majority who need treatment do not receive it because: They are afraid of losing, or being separated from…

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Woman, the living creature, the creating individual

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div> <blockquote class="tr_bq"> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi6Z9Oof1iUTTTq4NymFUMYQgIfoxXFAJs3Rjb9LAKGzIQX7s583hNjyDE1rTiY2omxUGnqJWcBJmZ87aQA0HRPufSR88UF30tiadVk3olZNJKgpLlWu9MmGWo4imXQ9sjh7rmQx03wewQ/s1600/Fotor0116125044.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="158" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi6Z9Oof1iUTTTq4NymFUMYQgIfoxXFAJs3Rjb9LAKGzIQX7s583hNjyDE1rTiY2omxUGnqJWcBJmZ87aQA0HRPufSR88UF30tiadVk3olZNJKgpLlWu9MmGWo4imXQ9sjh7rmQx03wewQ/s320/Fotor0116125044.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">Woman, the living creature, the creating individual, is always more important than any established style or system</span></blockquote> <div class="zemanta-related" style="clear: both; margin-top: 20px; overflow: hidden;"> <h4 class="zemanta-related-title"> Related articles</h4> <ul class="zemanta-article-ul zemanta-article-ul-image" style="margin: 0; overflow: hidden; padding: 0;"> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://mindofcalm.blogspot.com/2015/12/we-cannot-drop-ball-unless-we-are.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/364062607_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://mindofcalm.blogspot.com/2015/12/we-cannot-drop-ball-unless-we-are.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">We cannot drop a ball unless we are holding it in our hand.</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://mindofcalm.blogspot.com/2015/12/the-essential-difference-between.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/364062623_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://mindofcalm.blogspot.com/2015/12/the-essential-difference-between.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">The essential difference between animals and humans is the ability to self-reflect.</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://mindofcalm.blogspot.com/2015/12/at-ten-stages-we-recognise-that.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/364062639_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://mindofcalm.blogspot.com/2015/12/at-ten-stages-we-recognise-that.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">At the Ten Stages we recognise that meditation uses words, images, and feelings to evoke a lovingkindness and friendliness toward oneself and others is the healing balm of our practice.</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://stagesevents.blogspot.com/2015/12/half-way-through-course-after.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/364124457_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://stagesevents.blogspot.com/2015/12/half-way-through-course-after.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">Half way through the course after meditations we will start practicing using our newly found intuitive voice</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://stagesevents.blogspot.com/2015/12/the-child-within-has-been-left-alone.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/364124473_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://stagesevents.blogspot.com/2015/12/the-child-within-has-been-left-alone.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">The child within has been left alone for so long.</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; 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Woman, the living creature, the creating individual

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