As we start the journey of attempting to move forward on the path towards studying our condition

As we start the journey of attempting to move forward on the path towards studying our condition , different parts of us are re-energised at different stages of healing.Recovery has to be started, Some parts can be amazingly healed and insightful right at the beginning, while others can remain buried and out of touch. Our different parts traverse the various stages at their own speeds, seemingly independently – but ultimately connected to our core of perfection our child within by our universal thread of truth.

The most primitive stage on stages’s healing journey is the contest. This is the stage of grandiosity, acceptance by the norm, dissociated happiness, and approval by the subconscious parents. The parts of us that are winning the contest stop our journey before it has even begun. Here we deny our deepest traumas so intensely that we fool even ourselves into believing they never happened – and that we are already healed. It is for this reason that dissociation mimics enlightenment. Here we idealise us as parents, which allows us full unconscious liberty to replicate the worst of our past in our present. Here we do not look beneath our surface, and if fate goes our way, we will never have to. We remain happily distant from the misery lurking in our guts.